There are still times I feel like I’m the only one who lacks faith in themselves. But it turns out, self-doubt is common—very common. Especially for those of us that …
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How To Not Care What People Think – Is That Possible?
As someone who has to challenge their habitual urge to make people happy, the problem of “how to not care what people think” seems almost impossible to solve. But the …
How To Stop Overthinking? Approach It From A New Angle
Ah, a question that’s infuriated my mind. How to stop overthinking when you’re an overthinker? I would spend so much time trying to think my way out of my thoughts, …
How To Deal With Loneliness? The Universal Question
How to deal with loneliness? An almost universal dilemma. The discomfort of feeling isolated and disconnected despite longing for connection can be all-consuming. And it can feel even more disheartening …
How To Build Worth If You’re Feeling Unworthy?
Recently, I’ve been reminded how non-linear unlearning a core belief is. Especially such a wounded one as feeling unworthy. Just like our physical fitness, there are days you feel like …
How To Deal With Toxic People? Protect Your Energy
Have you ever been in a conversation with someone who seems to always dampen your spark? Or perhaps you can feel the weight of their pessimism just from their tone …
Mental Fatigue: Trust Me, It’s Real. Learn How To Recover
Mental fatigue (also known as mental exhaustion) is exactly what it says on the tin: your mind is exhausted. It is often the result of “prolonged cognitive activity,” where you’ve …
Turning 30 And Still Learning? Don’t Worry, Me Too
So as of today, I am 4 days into my 30th year. Gosh, the thought of turning 30 has been panic-inducing. How did time fly so fast? It felt like …
“Why Am I So Hard On Myself?” Simple Right?
“Why am I so hard on myself?” Has this question plagued your mind too? Know that you’re certainly not alone. I think it’s human nature to feel insecure and question …
Dysregulated Nervous System? How To Start Calming Yourself
Without making this post too scientific, it’s important to understand how our thoughts, emotions, and behaviours are all connected to a regulated or dysregulated nervous system. The more informed we …